Planning Advice

When I planned my own wedding, I thought it was not going to be a big deal. It is like planning a party. No sweat. Then I printed out a list. I knew I would have to think outside the wedding box.

Write down the vison
Purchase a notebook and write down what you want.

Color and concept
It can be based on your favorite hobby, childhood toy, or movie. I used a favorite romantic book for my own wedding. It was a book by Beverly Jenkins.

Create a Budget
Gather all paying parties and have a movie night. Then talk about a realistic budget. Place the
funding in an account.

Set the Date
It could be the first time you went out or your first kiss. I used my favorite month which is October.

The Officiant
You should find someone who fits the personality of your family and friends.

The Place
Envision your home. It should be clean, comfortable, and have plenty of parking spaces.

The Caterer
It can be a chef, a grocery store deli, or you. Taste the menu ahead of time.

The Dress
There a million places to find a dress. Be realistic how much weight you are going to loose. I know someone who had her guests waiting for two hours as she tried to get in her gown.
At least four months ahead of time, make an appointment to find your gown. If it off the rack, at least give yourself a month.

The Photographer
Make sure you look at actual pictures and read your contract carefully.

The Florist
Bring your ideas to your florist. Try to get actual pictures of wedding that person has done.

The Baker
Taste the cake.

Transportation
Consider the time of season. Right now, it almost prom season. So it maybe a little bit tough getting a limo. You should consider other modes of transportation.

Music
The wedding websites, friends, and previous brides are great sources to find the right music plan for your big day.
For a moment, you can always bring your own music.

Sources

Wedone.com

WeddingMarket.com is a source for wedding dresses.

Beautiful Wedding Receptions by Donna Kooler has several wedding menu