If you love me

Try these tunes for wedding day.

I Always Love You Dolly Parton
If You Love Me BB King
Rock Your Body Justin Timberlake
The Climb Miley Cyrus
Lifetime Thing Issac Hayes
Love Me Tender Elvis

After Party Mix Only, even the clean
If I Was Ya Girlfriend Misskey

John

When I was a teenager, I love the story of Peter and Catherine Marshall. It is a beautiful love story of a preacher's wife.

A Man Called Peter is a great book.They have an old movie as well.It is about a young man from scotland who finds his wife and his faith.

You should pick up both the book and movie.

Be inspired by this wedding theme.

invitation
a love letter on blue paper.

centerpiece
Blue pillar candles on a heart shaped mirror.

the song
My love by Justin Timberlake

ceremony
Exchange cross necklace

Ecclesiastes 3:11-14, 4:9-10

sign in
Elvis cover

cake
two tier heart shaped cake in blue with a cross topper.

cut the cake with a sword.

source
wikipedia.org
A Man Called Peter Catherine Marshall, Elenor Grifttin

Thank you Dan for picture.

Making The Cut

Pick up this workout book to shed those last pounds before your moment.

Making The Cut Jullian Micheals

Thank you Graeme Weatherston

Sylvia

Love is a gift especially when you nurture it.

The best love story I ever heard is two people who met in the south as kids. Over time, they started dating and later married.

Their lives took them from north to south. Sometimes, it took them all over the world.

Together or separated, they supported each other.

It was a love most people envied.

It is the love story of Sylvia and the late Herbert Woods. Real love, not a fairy tale. You should pick up her cook book and read it before your big day.


Be inspired by this love story.

bride
white off shoulder dress with gold shoes.Gold tiara.

invitation
white card stock with gold bow

centerpiece
gold metal balls in clear container. Sprinkle table with red rose petals.

sign in
Favorite cookbook with candy tree.


cake
two tier white cake with dots of gold on the side of the cake. Topper of gold sugar roses.

menu
chicken with mushroom sauce
herb poach salmon
herb roasted potatoes
string beans
slviarestraunt.com

song
If This World Were Mine Luther Vandross Cherlyl Lynn
Candy Girl New Edition

Source
Sylvia Family Cookbook Sylvia Woods and Melissa Cook
kreation specialities kreationspecialities.com (908)769-6825

Thank you Simon Haden for picture.

The After Party Jam

Follow Us Sir Lucious Left Foot Big Boi Feat. vonnegutt

Have a great weekend!

Strategy

When the kids go off to high school or college,I write them a letter. I outline what they need to do and maybe some of the mistakes I have made.

I want to them have a strategy for their life. I want them to go out there and roar like a lion and devour every opportunity in sight.

Be inspired by this wedding.

invitation
blue card stock with a red ribbon with black ink.

dress
white dress with 3 gardenia with a blue ribbon.

groom
tux with a brown or tan vest and bow tie.

camouflage ring pillow-thingsfestival.com

song
Love In The First Degree Alabama

centerpiece
A gardenia in gold bud vase.

cake
White sheet cake with blue border. A picture of the American flag.

"Our marriage is based upon on mutual trust and respect" Colin Powell
place this quote under the flag.
about.com

charity
Collect school supplies from your guests and donate it to a local school.

Thank you Bernie C for free pictue.

The Game

For your date night in, consider these board games for you and your mate.

Risk
boardgamecentral.com

Do Tell
dotellthegame.com

About Time
barnesandnobel.com

Thank you Salvatore Vuno for picure.

The Dress

Consider these dresses for your moment.

A little red dress
discountdress.com

A satin bridesmaid dress
style number 81599
David Bridal

A ballroom gown
gownsbysimpleelegance.com
ALRQ213

Soulfood Cookbooks

When I think of soul food, my daddy comes to mind. He was from Twiggs County Georgia, and he knew about things smothered in gravy. After work, he came home and cooked for us. We would stand in the kitchen with him as he sang, told jokes, and served the best stuff you ever would eat.

Sylvia's Family Cookbook Sylvia Woods, Melissa Cook
It has great life lessons in it. This would be a great book for a college graduate.

Patti LaBelle Lite Cusine Cookbook

Down Home with the Neelys:A Southern Family Cookbook

The Lady and Sons Savannah Country Cookbook Paula Deen

Thank you Graur Codrin.

September

In September at school we would have soul food day. Now in college this was like gold because it meant salt, fat, and you know, taste.

So people lined up for something that actually tasted like food.

Soul, Peace, and Love for this wedding inspiration.

invitation
your favorite recipe printed in the middle of pretty paper with the information
in each corner.

bride
white dress with a candy bouquet of lollipops.

centerpiece
mixed colorful beans in clear containers.

Sprinkle the table with greenery.

sign in
top chef t shirt at cafepress.com

song
September Earth, Wind, and Fire

menu
stuffed cabbages
jerk chicken
lemon biscuits
sweet potato mini cupcakes

Cake
Two cake with kente cloth ribbon around each tier.
Red peppers made out of sugar as a topper.

special touch
soul train line for your wedding party dance.

source
soulfoodcookbook.com

Thank you Suat Eman for picture.

the dream

I am excited about both of my nieces who are freshmen in college. They are both good girls, and they are about to embark on a great journey.

The day before they graduated I went to the toy store and walked down the Barbie aisle with tears in my eyes. Both of them were no longer little girls who need a doll to play with. They had grown up.

My hope that they find their Ken doll and live out all their career choices.

I want all their dreams to come true.

Live out the dream and be inspired by this wedding.

the invitation
letter on recycle paper

the bride
white dress with white gloves.Bouquet of red roses.

Hold a handkerchief with June 18, 1953 on it. This is Martin Luther King's wedding date.

gold tiara.

ceremony
two gold candelabra with red tea roses.

scripture for ceremony
Song of Solomon 2:11-15

groom
white jacket, black pants, black bow tie.

sign in
a globe

centerpiece
two toasting glasses with tea roses with butterfly picks.

song
Unfailing Love Jimmy Needham
Imagine John Lennon

cake
two tier cake with a crown cake topper.

cookie table
dreams such as house, education, career goals.

sources
tiaratown.com
partypop.com
cake topper-factorydirect.com on Amazon.

Thank you Filoem Scalise for picture.

The Workout

I gained all my freshmen 15. In our house, my daddy was old school. No cereal.

So when I left home, I brought every box known to man. Sugar plus no exercise equals your freshmen 15.

Since I was so small, people thought I was pregnant. Old school dad. Teen pregnancy is called suicide.

Work it out!

the book
Everything Wedding Workout Book Shirley Archer

Yoga for Dummies, Georg Feuerstein Larry Payne

the tape
tae bo
billyblanks.com

dance
Collagevideo.com

Thank you Stefano Valle for picture.

Into the Groove

Try these tunes at wedding reception.


Anytime Brian McKnight
Into the Groove Madonna
Vogue Madonna
The Fame Lady Gaga
Hood Love Mary J. Blidge ft. Trey Songz
Need You Now Lady Antebellum
Lover, Lover Jerrod Neiman
I Can't Help Falling in Love Elvis
Pretty Boy Swag Soulja Boy
Hello Morning Diddy-Dirty Money ft. TI, Rick Ross

Greek

One of my favorite movies is My Big Fat Greek Wedding. It is about transformation.
It is about family and romance.

invitation
dream vacation spot post card.

bride
white gown with a halo of tea roses and baby breath.

bridesmaids
short dress with a halo of greenery and baby breath.

flower girl
white dress with a pretty decorative mask.

ring bearer
white toga with a gold pillow.

centerpieces
funny quotes from the movie in gold frames.

sign in
a picture of your dream house.

cake
two tier white cake with a gold horse.

special touch
Get your local fraternity to step for you.

The Plan

Wedding planners are like maps. You may need one to get through this journey or huge puzzle called a wedding.

Book
Wedding Planning For Dummies Marcy Blume, Laura Fisher Kaiser

A Wedding Planner
A wedding planner is a great resource. You can find one who is trying to build up their business to save money.


Association for Wedding Planners
afwpi.com

Software
My Style Wedding
weddingoutlet.com

For Fun
Diary of a Mad Bride Laura Wolf
This is not a planner but it does have a checklist. It was great for stress when I was planning my own wedding.

Thank you Paul Martin Eldridge

Sweethearts

My niece who was valedictorian of her class has headed off to college. So this week, I have been trying to be a big girl and not a control freak and let life take its course without calling her.

Baby steps.

Be inspired by the sweetheart theme.

invitation
letter on red paper.

bride
white dress with tea roses.

ceremony
Exchange dress pins instead of a the unity candle.

centerpiece
Get old books and cover them with contact paper in red, white, and black patterns.
Place a red rose on top.

cake
cocktail cupcakes in favorite flavors.

sign in
college t shirt or jersey.


Sprinkle heart shape confetti on the table in gold.

favors
sweetheart candies

sources
collegstuff.com
thingsfestive.com

Thank you Paul Martin Eldridge

After Party Jam

Your Love Nicki Minaj

Have a great weekend!

The Dance Dress

The dance. For a shy girl who could not dance, this was fright night at Six Flags.

Did my mom care? No. She pushed me right out there with my two good moves. Yeah, some things have not changed. I still only have two good moves.

For a affordable wedding dress, consider a dance dress.


Check out:
ekclothing.com
latindancestore.com

Lunch Menu

Fresh berries
Peanut butter Chicken-cooks.com
Popcorn Salad-allrecipes.com
Bread
Lemon Sorbet

Thank you Maggie Smith for the picture.

Popcorn Love

As a teenager, going to the movie is one of the easiest first dates. You sit there, in the dark, hold hands. Afterward, you can talk about the movie. Easy conversation starter.

For a parent, you can hide in the back. Hopefully, you don't get caught.

Be inspired by popcorn love.

invitation
brown card stock, black ink, peppermint scent on the back.

bride
Little white dress. White container with a handle filled with white tea roses with
brown bead stems.

centerpiece
White rose in bud vase surrounded by candle holders filled with candies.

sign in
Favorite wedding movie poster.

song
Popcorn Love New Edition

cake
One tier heart shape cake. gold dusted popcorn on top.

special touch
Snack table. Candies, various flavored popcorn, cheese nachos.

sources
candywarehouse.com
candydirect.com
garvick.com-popcorn ideas

thank you Francesco Marino for picture.

The Kiss

My first kiss. I was four years old, he was the boy next door to my grandmother's. It happened quickly.

My grandma had a look on her face as if she wanted to laugh but she could not. So she gave us a long lecture. Maybe she laughed with my grandaddy later.

Anyway, be inspired by the kiss.

invitation
Type up your favorite love poem in the center of the page and then details in each
corner.

the bride
white dress with a red lip. Bouquet of red beads and brown dyed roses.

the bridesmaids
red dress with pink paper flowers.

the sign in
The Kiss Gustav Klimt

song for the reception
I was Made for Lovin' You Kiss
Kiss Prince
Lip gloss Lil Mama

centerpiece
lyrics to your favorite love songs in a gold frame. sprinkle table with
red rose petals. Then make sure incorporate these songs into your
wedding.

special touch
Hershey kiss dessert table. pie, cookies, pizza.

source
artifical flowers Melissa Mckean ehow.com

Thank you Francesco Marino for the image.

The lipstick

Wedding makeup. It is like the chocolate on the cupcake. It brings everything together.

Here are some beauty sites for your wedding day.

makeupdivas.com
beautycheap.com
bridalbeautybuzz.com
beauty-blogs.com

Thank you Tina Phillips.

Holding Hands

Holding hands is the ultimate thing when you are young. It is walking around the park, grinning at each other in the school hallway, or sharing a moment at the movie.

It is love communication. So innocent. A lost art form.

The most beautiful thing is to see a couple that has been together forever like my cousin and they are still holding hands.

invitation
blank note cards

bride
White dress with orange blossom(innocence) bouquet.

bridesmaids
blue dress with baby breath bouquet

ceremony
A song in sign language

centerpiece
blue and white ribbon bouquet in a clear container.

sign in
Have the guests to trace their hands

belly dancer
during dessert

cake
one round tier basket weave in white with a holding hands cake topper.
www.weddingfavorsunlimited.com

Thank you Aleksander Kutsayer

Cupid

Happy Tuesday!

Try these tunes for your wedding reception.

Heaven Solo
You Belong to Me Taylor Swift
Puppy Love Paul Anka
Our Hearts are Holding Hands Loretta Lynn
Halo Beyonce
Cupid 112
We Danced Brad Paisley
I Want to Hold Your Hand The Beatles
U Send Me Swingin' Mint Condition

The Dating Game

Authenticity is a great date in game which helps you to really get know each other.

www.playauthenticity.com


Thank you Jcreationszs for picture.

The Crush

Confession

The person I married started out as a crush. I met him at church in Sunday school class, and consequently, we went to the same high school.

Let's face facts, I was queen of the crush. I had a million of them because I was too shy to open my mouth. I was that girl always with a romance novel in my hand. Sweet Valley High, anyone?

Thankfully, the person I married knew how to take hint.

Be inspired by the school girl crush.

invitation
the letter to your wedding guests

Spray your favorite perfume on the back. Fill with rose petals.

bride
short dress with high heels. A bouquet of pink and white roses.

ceremony
If you can, take your favorite romance novel past or present and incorporate it into your vows.

sign in
A journal

song
Crush David Archuleta

centerpiece
Place a heart shaped balloon inside a clear container.Then fill with rose petals.

cake
A heart shaped cake with a couple teddy bear topper. On the cake table, place two teddy bears in a bride and groom outfit on the table.

Thank you Tina Philliphs for the picture.

After Party Jam

Turn off the Lights Teddy Pendergrass

Have a great weekend!

End of Season

It's August. I am ready for fall because it has been one long hot summer.

End of the season saving

the ex bride
The spring and early summer brides have worn it. You try to find it. Post a classified in your local newspaper, look on ebay.

Even try craigslist. You might find a deal.

the little summer dress
Fall clothes are coming in. So hit the clearance racks, you never know what you may find.

follow that wedding
On wedding sites and wedding blogs, brides are posting about their wedding. Ask them if they will sell or rent their gown to you.

Happy Shopping!

Have I Told You...

Sunflowers bring joy and happiness to any wedding.

invitation
business cards on yellow pager with black ink. Floral scent on the back.

bride
Sundress with heels. Sunflower choker.

centerpiece
Oreo cookies for dirt in a glass pottery container. sugar sunflowers.


sign in
A picture of the sunset.

cake
sheet cake with the picture of the bride holding sunflowers.

song
Have I told You Lately Rod Stewart

special touch
sun flower petals instead of rose petals

favors sunflower seeds

Thank you Pixomar for picture.

Miss Chicken II

Consider Miss Chicken for your menu.

Pecan Breaded Chicken
seaonal vegetables
french bread
spice tea

Martha Stewart Weddings

With You

If you want inspiration for your wedding, consider your favorite love song. Everyone has one. I have several.

With you by Tony Terry is one of my favorite love songs.

This song has everything you would want to say to the one you love.

Be inspired.

invitation
postcard of the sunset

bride
A knee length dress with a bouquet of yellow tulips(hopelessly in love).

the sign in
A world map

Sprinkle smiley face confetti on the table.

centerpiece
A yellow tulip in a bud vase.

cake
one tier heart shape cake with yellow butter cream tulips

groom cake
Stop sign. Stop for love in white letters.

Thank you Simon Howden

Giving Myself

Happy Tuesday!

Try these tunes for your wedding reception.

You Jessie Powell
She Believes In Me Kenny Rogers
I Met Rascal Flatts
Sweet Child o Mine Guns N Roses
Giving Myself Jennifer Hudson

Purple Rain

It is summer time. Hot and rainy.

It is kind of like Purple Rain.

The movie makes for a great date in movie while the soundtrack can be added to your wedding reception.

invitation
post card of Minnepolis

bride
White dress with purple callies.

bridesmaids
purple dress with baby breath and purple statice.

sign in
A poster of Prince. Rated G for everyone ladies.

the centerpiece
red rose floating candles in purple colored water.

the cocktail
the purple drink
drinkmixer.com

song
I Would Die 4 U by Prince

special touch
musical instrument cookie table

cocktail hour
purple appetizers

Jennifer Renee

after party jam

My heart Jennifer Hudson

Have a great weekend!

Wine Tasting Pot Luck

A wine tasting pot luck is a great at home wedding.

guests
under 30

ceremony
small table with a candles.

bride
a halter white dress

invitation
a purple colored paper with black ink.

In a letter, ask your guests to bring a bottle of wine. You provide finger foods and few bottles of your own.

centerpiece
a bowl of grapes

i need Love

Try these tunes for your wedding reception.

You're my Best Friend Queen
Kool and Gang Celebration
Love All Over Me Monica
I Need Love LL Cool J
Crazy Pasty Cline
Feels So Right Alabama
Whitney Houston Greatest Hits
If You Had my Love Jennifer Lopez
Vision of Love Mariah Carey

Y2K

It was the best of times.

It is a great theme for an over top at home wedding.

guests
under 40

invitation
Silver invitation with black ink.

bride
white short dress with silver boots.

crystal bouquet.

centerpiece
glass flowers in a silver container

sign in
play money place in a silver kids cash register

music
Who is Jill Scott? Jill Scott

cake
Two tier silver cake with a light up cake topper.

cocktail hour
Have the servers dress in costumes.Favorite stars from 2000.

sweet table
Over sized candy rings, mini cupcakes with sugar diamonds, silver chocolate roses,
and champagne shaped cookies.

Fiesta

Small at home weddings are great for a bride's budget. You can have a blank canvas for too many ideas.

I love the idea of fiesta especially during the summer time.

invitation
a travel postcard

bride
A red dress, a hat, and flower pinned to the hat.

centerpiece
Colorful peppers in a clear container.

decor
colorful hats hanging from the ceiling

drink
Devil cocktail
about.com

song
Fiesta by R. Kelly

food ideas
fietamarta.com

cake
two tier cake with dessert plant on top.

favor
red hot candies

Thank you Antonine Henrich.

the list

A list exchange can improve your relationship. It is a list of five things you want, more dates, improve family quality time, certain household chores, and etc.

It can truly help your communication skills in your marriage.

After Party Jam

Superstar by Usher

A little Wild

If you want something creative for your bridal look, consider animal print.

a little something animal
It can be something as simple as a bit of leopard as a ribbion of your dress.

two piece
You can have a solid white skirt with a animal print top.

prom look
There are many prom looks in animal print.

sources
tjformal.com
frenchnovelty.com
OneStopPlus.com

Eat It

Consider these tunes for your wedding day.

Sweet Thang Chakkah Khan
Mother Popcorn James Brown
Lady Marmalade LaBelle
Sugar Sugar The Archies
Eat It Al Yankovic
Shake, Rattle, and Roll Big Joe Turner
D'Angelo Brown Sugar
Domestic Light and Cold Dieks Bently
A Song for Mama Boyz II Men from the soulfood soundtrack

Thank you Graeme Weatherston

Stoneage Living

Costumes parties always add a little fun to a moment. Be inspired with this stone age party for your day.

invitation
brown invite with a leopard ribbon at the top.

bride
white mini dress with flip flops. Baseball bat covered in silk flowers

flower girl
costume as stone age girl with a wooden basket with greenery

centerpiece
rocks in clear container

cocktail hour
Eat like the stone age with lentils, pork, beans, and nuts.

cake
two tier cake with a toy dinosaur topper.

favors
candy with insects in them

First Date Meal

Food was always around us. My dad cooked everyday when he came home from work. On Sunday we go to my aunt Viola's home for a buffet. Then there was church, school, and friends.

Food makes for great memories.

It is the bite of your first date, the smells of your courtship, and the taste of your engagement meal.

Be inspired by this wedding theme.

the invitation
red card stock with black ink. Peppermint scent on the back.

Or a scent from your first date.

the bride
A white dress with basket of red roses with baby breath.

the centerpiece
Red colored eggs in a black wire basket.

ring bearer
chef costume with a spoon for the rings

flower girl
chef costume with a little pot for petals

cocktail hour
Recreate the foods from your first date.

sign in
a poster of French Chef by Theoudule Ribot

group dance
Mash Potatoes, USA James Brown

Thank you healingdream for picture.

The After Party Jam

StoptheWorld by Maxwell. It is a nice cut for your after party.

Have a great weekend!

Dress under $1000

You have to pay a fortune to be fabulous on your day.

the wedding dress
bestfordess.com
scarletcloset.com
inweddingdress.com
weddingdressonline.com

your hair and nails
go to the local beauty schools

makeup
I used Marykay. The representative came to my mother's house to do my makeup the day of the wedding.

shoes
Try the local consignment shops before you pay retail.

Exhale Tea Menu

Try this tea menu for your wedding guests.


Signature cocktail tea
spring rolls
vegetable dumplings
turkey wrapped asparagus
almond cookies
mini banana pudding
Green tea
Oolong tea

Thank you free digital photo.

Zen Tea Party

Relaxation and wedding seem like mixing oil and water.

Bring a little serenity to your day with this wedding theme.

invitation
brown card stock with black ink. Peppermint oil on the back of the invite.

bride
A white dress with an orchid in your hair.

centerpiece
Clear containers with black rocks on a patch of green grass.

cake
Two tier green cake with a fountain.

One orchid wedding topper.

sign in
A simple piece of paper with a wooden brown pen.

sources
Zen Flowers Brenda Berkley Anula Kitamura
globalgourmet.com
zenhabits.com

Relax

Take a wedding book break.

I Ain't Scare of You: Bernie Mac on How Life Is by the great Bernie Mac

Thank you Ahmet Guler.

Tea and Hats

Sometimes my mom's church put on a hat and tea fashion show. The local stores donate hats and clothing to the cause which is worn by the members.

To me I like to see what hats are being worn. It gets very creative.

invitation
fashion postcard

bride
A simple white dress with hat. Attach the flower to the hat.

centerpiece
Photographs of the bride and groom

guests
You tell everyone to wear a hat for the wedding.

cake
one tier cake with a hat topper

sign in
Copy of your favorite fashion magazine

fashion show
Get the kids in the family to put on a fashion show during the meal.

wedding party dance
Vogue by MaDonna

Tea Music

Jazz, classical or oldies but goodies are great selections for a tea party.

For my crowd, I always go r and b with a little bit of oldies and goodies. It is always a great conversation starter.



Greatest Hits Otis Redding
Happily Ever After Case
Forever in Love Kenny G
Vivaldi The Four Seasons Anne Mother, Trundheim Solists
Greatest Hits Dave Koz
But For the Grace of God Keith Urban

Tea Party like the 1600s

During the 1600s, tea parties were popping up everywhere.

Be inspired by this wedding theme.

invitation
a ivory colored letter in black ink.

bride
A line or ballroom gown with a crown. Carry a bouquet of wild flowers.

bridesmaids
A line dress with a bouquet of greenery, baby breath, and herbs.

centerpiece
Gold painted angels with baby breath and wild flowers.

cake
one tier cake with gold crown.

menu
assorted bread
assorted cheeses
banana mini cupcakes
pineapple chicken

song
Canon D Johann Pachelbel

sign in
A poster from the Baroque period

special touch
cocktail tea table

Saving on a Tea

A tea is really a great blank canvas for a wedding. You can add a fashion show, your culture, or even a fun historical costume party.

It can take place at your bed and breakfast, a park, or even at home.

There are several ways to save on your tea reception

Your local deli
With a little notice you can pull many sweet treats and great sandwiches at your local deli.

a pastry student
There are many students out there with great and creative ideas.

do it yourself
Get a cookbook

decor
Keep it simple. Rose petals, confetti, or simple flowers in a vase.

rentals
A rental store can be your best friend for your tea reception.

thrift
You can find great items at your local thrift store.

Tea with a Asian Touch

Something red.

If you want to save a bit of green, consider a tea with an Asian touch.

invitation
A white invitation with black ink in a red envelope.

bride
A white dress with a red parasol.

bridesmaids
A red dress with a wooden fan.

centerpiece
A wooden box with a black silk fabric. Fill with red tea roses.

cake
A red one tier in shape of a gift box with a black bow.

special touches

red aisle runner for the ceremony

candles on the guest sign in table. Use a piece of art from an Asian artist.

Honor your parents and serve them their tea.

Have a hour of karaoke.

sources
asianideas.com
shindigz.com

What is a wedding dress?

At times like these, a wedding dress is defined by you.

If I look at my own family wedding photographs, a wedding dress was many things. It was a simple dress worn by my grandmother. A knee length white dress at a home wedding for my cousin Jean during the 1970s. A traditional gown by cousin Theresa.

I wore a big ballroom gown, but my sister decided to wear a pair of nice dress slacks, a blouse, and cute high heels.

Consider these looks for your moment

something traditional
weddingdresssearch.com

something simple
LaneBryant.com
Newportnews.com

something different
tk-designs.com
utsavsarees.com

Happy Shopping!

Lunch Menu

A lunch reception is a great way to save money especially during the peak of wedding season.

Lemon Chicken
Black Eye Pea Salad
Corn Muffins
Spiced Pears


source
eatingwell.com
food network.com

Thank you Suat Aman

Jumping the Broom

This is the one regret of my wedding.

I did not add the jumping of the broom to end of the ceremony. Honestly, I thought big dress, four inch heels, accident prone personality.

I did not think I was going to make it.

Jumping over the broom dates back to the days of slavery when it was illegal for African Americans to marry.

You simply place a beautiful decorated broom on the floor and jump over it into your new life as husband and wife.

Be inspired by this wedding theme.

invitation
Ivory invite with black ink with a gold bow

bride
White dress with a tea rose bouquet with gold cowie shell

bridesmaids
white knee length sundress with a gold cowie decorated fan

centerpiece
A clear container of lemons. Sprinkle cowie shells on the table.

sign in
A family cookbook. Get everyone to send in their favorite recipes.

cake
Two tier white cake with henna designs on the side of it.

dessert
mini honey flavored cupcakes.

favors
hot pepper candies.

song
You are the Sunshine of my Life Stevie Wonder

special touch
Together with the groom, decorate your groom. Add little charms that reflect your relationship.

The Irish Brunch

For the bride who wants a little good luck for her day, consider the Irish brunch.

invitation
white card stock with green writing and orange bow

bride
orange dress with greenery bouquet with horseshoe charms

bridesmaids
green dress with a bouquet of wild flowers

centerpiece
beer mug filled with wild flowers

menu
omelets, sausages, salmon cakes, potato pancakes, cabbage wrapped in bacon

cake
Two tier white cake. Orange ribbion. Green wedding bell as a topper.

sources
ireland-information.com
bridalvillage.com
weddinghankies.com

Thank you free digital photo.

The Sweet Union

I think interconnecting different belief systems would baffle anyone. My sister is Baptist while her husband's family practices the Muslim faith.

For their wedding, they kept it simple. They went to the courthouse and took the intermediate family to their favorite restaurant. Next year, they are having a wedding reception.

interfaith tips

one ceremony
Sometimes it is possible to blend both faiths into one ceremony especially if it is a Jewish and Christian ceremony. You just focus on the things you have in common.

three day affair
For this type day, keep it intermediate family with close family and friends. Celebrate the groom's faith the first day, the bride's faith the second day, and have a huge party on the third.

non religious
When you cannot come up with a compromise, consider the non religious route. Make a family affair by incorporating favorite family recipes, genealogy, parent favorite music into your day.

source
Interaith Wedding Ceremonies by Joan C. Haxhurst

Saturday Night Fever

Saturday Night Fever. I have watched this movie a million times. I think it is a great theme for a wedding.

invitation
postcard of bride and groom dancing

bride
Red dress with gold shoes. Pomander of red beads.

bridesmaids
black bell bottoms with silk shirt with heels. Holding a red rose.

front of ceremony
Garland of red carnation. Disco ball in the center.

menu
cocktail
sclamurecil shooters, Italian meat balls, mini pizza, lemon sorbet, and
mini lemon drop cookies

cake
sheet cake of the bride and groom dancing

centerpiece
mirror tile a container. Then place red roses in it.

sign in
Bee Gee album

group wedding party dance
Disco Inferno Trammps

first dance
How Deep Is Your Love Bee Gees

sources
reasontoparty.com
heels.com
italienfood.about.com

Sweet Home Alabama

Group dancing. Group dancing always took place in the living room or the front yard as I attempt to learn the latest dance moves. The key word here is attempt.

Consider these selections for your wedding party dance.

Sweet Home Alabama Lynrd Skynrd
Devil Went Down to Georgia Charlie Daniel Band
Crazy in Love Beyonce Featuring Jay Z
Crank That Soulja Boy
Dance, Dance Fall Out Boy
This Is How We Do It Montell Jordan
Achy Breaky Heart Billy Ray Cyrus
Soul Man Blues Brothers
Don't Stop Till Get Enough Micheal Jackson
When Doves Cry Prince
We are Family Sister Sledge
Cha Cha Slide Mr C

Thank you Graeme Weatherston

The Sweet Tooth

I have a huge sweet tooth. In our neighborhood, we would have several people who sold candy. I knew them all. I am sure I sent a few of their children to college.

For a great wedding reception on a budget, consider the sweet tooth wedding reception.

time
late evening

invitation
pink business card with the information in black

bride
pink knee length wedding dress with a bouquet of pink carnations with red beads.

ceremony
Exchange candy necklace.

centerpiece
a pink or red candy rose in a clear bud vase filled with white beads. Sprinkle the table with pink carnation petals.

the flower girl ring bearer dance
choose a fun song for them.

menu
candy table-assorted candies. Go to Sams Club or oriental trading.

the cupcake table-large, small, or mini. Rum flavored, chocolate, and vanilla.

Pie table-Key lime, lemon, apple, and blueberry.

cheese cake table-assorted flavors

wedding cake
One tier wedding cake that looks like a cake box with the last name of the couple
and wedding date

sources
southernfood.com
eweddingcake.com

history of cake
foodmuseum.com

Cookie Baking 101

I see a lot of brides out there with big inspirations to make a wedding cake.

But can you pass cookie baking 101?

I watched my godmother make many wedding cakes. It takes a lot of love and patience.

Me? I am cupcake kind of girl. I have the lopsided cake pictures to prove it.


diy for the Benita's out there

three tier cake pan
You pour and bake without having to stack.

amazon.com
target.com

cupcakes
Buy or make these sweet treats.

wilton.com

plain and white
Go to a cake baker and order a plain white cake.

Then add your own decorations from a craft store or fresh flowers from a florist.

oreintatltrading.com

First Date Look

It has been over a decade since I had a first date. So if this thing does not work out, I am totally out of practice.

I do remember what I wore.

I really liked this guy so I went downtown to find something to wear. I purchased this little two piece black dress suit with a pleather collar. It really showed off my legs without being too short.

With a little imagination, you take the first date look and make it bridal for your moment.

the little black dress
More brides back in the day wore what they had. Maybe it would have been black. So for cute cocktail reception, consider a little black dress.

bannarepublic.com

the cute dress
Take a simple dress and pair it with a short veil.

Unlike me, you can actually wear it more than once.

shopmissrubyboutique.com

vintage style
Be inspired by the past and find the perfect bridal look.

pinupgirlclothing.com

Happy Shopping!

Get Your Groove Back

When I was a student too many years ago, I would sit on the train and read. How Stella Got Her Groove Back was one of my favorite books.

The movie is wonderful and once again, it is a great date in movie on a Friday night.

It is also gives a tropical touch to a wedding. Get your groove back with this wedding theme.

invitation
clear invitation with blue ink.

bride
simple wedding dress with a basket filled with orchids

bridesmaids
a blue short set with silver high heels

front of ceremony
heart shaped silver arch with a shell gardland. Orientaltrading.com.

sign in
poster of the movie

first dance
Beautiful by Mary J. Blidge

centerpiece
over sized champagne glasses with floating roses.

signature drink
Shakespeare Rum

cake
two tier blue wedding cake with silver monogram as a topper

special touch
cocktail cookie table

The Sweet and Spicy Menu

Give your guests this sweet and spicy menu.

Nutty Tropical Salad
food network, Emeril Lagassse

Pina Colda Chicken with Rice
koccakitchen.com

Chilli Candy
candy.com

keylime chupcakes
wilton.com

Love Jones

Love Jones is a great date in movie. It has a romantic story background in which you just sit and cuddle a little closer.

It also can be turned into inspiration for a wedding.

My advice is to keep rated G for everyone because your grandmother is sitting there.

invitation
black invite with blue ink. Sprinkle red rose petals inside the invite.

bride
A white short dress with blue dyed tea roses and black ribbion.

ceremony
Incoporate romantic poetry during the wedding ceremony.

sign in
A book of photography.

centerpiece
A clear container filled with deep blue dyed carnations. Use candles all around the centerpiece.


cocktail hour
Fill the hour with romantic jazz tunes.

Serve breakfast inspired items.

signature drink
The Nina

first dance
In Sentimental Mood Duke Ellington and John Coltrane

cake
A sheet cake with a picture of the couple.

cake cutting music
The Sweetest Thing Refugee Camp All Stars Staring The Great Lauryn Hill



source
poemhunter.com
romancelovepoetry.com
smoothjazz.com

Lights Out

Turn down the light and add candles to your day.

ideas

floating candles
Floating candles are great. You can place them in over sized champagne glasses with a sprinkle of rose petals for a romantic look.

candelabra
A candlebra is great for a formal wedding. You can dress it up with a little beading.

Add tapers with roses in them for a romantic look.

Pillar candles
A grouping of pillar candles on a framed mirror can be great look. You can find these candles anywhere from discount to a craft store. To save, look for them after Christmas, Easter, and valentine day.

sources
chandlercandle.com
amercianbridal.com

The Time of my Life

Dirty Dancing brings the 1960s to life with fashion and music. I am sure I had to sneak to watch this movie with those moves.

Consider this theme for your moment.

invitation
White panel with blue ink

the bride
Below knee length wedding dress with short veil. Add a little brooch.

Carry a bouquet of white tea roses with blue freesia.

bridesmaids
white shirt, white dressy capri pants with silver high heels

sign in
Nobody puts Baby in the Corner t shirt

cocktail
the watermelon cocktail

music
These Arms of Mine Otis Redding
Love Man Otis Redding
The Time of my Life Bill Meledy and Jennifer Warner

wedding party dance
The Samba

centerpiece
Mini cupcakes with blue icing

Cake
two tier cake with white columns with an old fashion couple topper

sources
weddingdressesgallery.com
emitations.com
birdcageveils.com

Slow Jam

When I think of a slow jam, my mind goes back to the skating rink. The music would slow down, you would find the right person. It gave you opportunity to hold hands and hope for a date.

Consider these songs for your wedding reception.

Here and Now Luther Vandross
Lady in my Life Micheal Jackson
Slow Jam Atlantic Star
When You Look Me in the Eyes Jonas Brothers
Breath Faith Hill
You're Still the One Shania Twain
Wait for Me Elliot Yamin
When You Need Me Aaron Hall
Share my World Mary J. Blidge
There You Go Johnny Gill
You Shouldn't Kiss Me Like This Toby Keith
Let's Chill Guy
I Just Can't Stop Loving You Micheal Jackson

Summer Nights

I love the movie Grease. My sister and I have spent several New Year Eve nights singing off key.

This is a great and fun inspiration for a wedding.

invitation
A letter with perfume sprayed on the back.

bride
A 1950s dress with a pony tail. A pink rose bouquet.

bridesmaids
A pink shirt, a narrow black skirt. A pink rose in hand.

the sign in
A movie poster

the centerpiece
Toy cars and motorcycles on a dummy tier covered in roses.

cocktail hour
soda shop theme with mini burgers and fries with a root beer float.

signature cocktail
the frenchie

music
Tutti Frutti Little Richard
You Send Me Sam Cooke

cake
sheet cake with picture of the bride and groom in 1950s outfit

special touches

Make your own Rydell High from gingerbread. Use a kit. Place it on your cake table.

take an hour for karaoke

The Date

When we went to Stone Mountain Park, we were surrounded by couples. Young people and old with picnic baskets, blankets, enjoying the music and each other.

Not me. I had my child. It was a mess. Welcome to motherhood.

Anyway, it made me think of my cousin. She is youthful 70 year old and looks as if she is 40. She still dates her husband. Every week they go out to dinner. Sometimes it is cheap, sometimes it is not.

They have been married for over 40 years. So the secret: keep that date night.

source: cooldate.com

Too Hot

When I was married, I wore a big ballroom gown in October, but even in this fall month, it is hot in Macon, Georgia.

So by the time, I arrived at my reception, I was ready strip that big dress off. I could have used a little cocktail dress.

for the summer
This is great little dress for the summer wedding especially for a destination moment.

for the reception
If you need to party the night away, you can find a little white dress or just something within your wedding colors.

for the cost
You can find a nice cocktail dress for under $200. You can save that money for the honeymoon.

sources
NewYorkDress.com
renttherunway.com
syndneyscloset.com
onlygowns.com

Happy Shopping!

Beer Run

Add a little country with this wedding theme.

invitation
cow boy art note cards

bride
Plaid dress with white cowboy boots. Wildflower bouquet.

bridesmaids
white shirt, dark jeans, and cowboy boots. baby breath and greenery bouquet.

sign in
A guitar

centerpieces
Grass in faux suede containers.

cake
two tier cake with plaid ribbion. A bronze microphone topper.

special touches
name your tables after your favorite country music artists

wedding party line dance

incorporate country music lyrics in your wedding vows

beer mugs filled with flowers on your sign in table, cake table.

beer bar

Cocktail Menu

A cocktail menu is a great way to save money.

inform the guests
Place it on your invitation

consider the time
Take into consideration the time of day. If it early, you can away with less, but for a later wedding, serve more and something more substantial.

be creative
This does not have to be boring. A tropical theme for a summer wedding, a chocolate theme for the winter holiday, and even pull inspiration for your local town.

menu ideas
Go to foodnetwork.com and find ideas there.

i Love rock n roll

For the bride who wants to rock it out, consider the rock n roll theme.

invitation
black invitation with silver leather bow at the top

bride
short white dress with a leather bouquet

bridesmaids
white shirt, plaid skirt and high heels. Small red rose.

sign in
Your favorite rock magazine.

centerpiece
Spray paint a skull silver. Then place it on a bed of red rose petals.

cake
two tier white cake with black leather ribbon around each tier.

A silver microphone as a topper.

special touch

sports car groom cake

Cocktail Time

If an invitation sets the tone for your wedding, a cocktail can get the party started.

this is not a buffet
Wine and beer with a signature cocktail will do. You have a bridal party tasting party to get ideas.

cash bar
Most people do not like the unexpected. So make sure you inform your guests on your wedding invitation. If you can, offer soft drinks and water with at least a wine for free.

plan ahead
At least three months ahead, make sure you have an idea what you are serving.

servers
Have a plan at least a month ahead. For a large wedding, I would invest in a bartender even a student one is better than nothing.

diy
Figure if you can do it yourself especially if you are having a small wedding.

get the rules
Different sites have different rules and regulations. So get the rules ahead of time.

drinkmixer.com
supercocktail.com
cocktailtimes.com
drinknation.com

Hip Hop Horray

For those who love hip hop, this theme is for you.

invitation
black card stock with gold writing

bride
short white dress with white ankle boots. A pomander of white crystals.

bridesmaids
a short black dress with gold high heels. A gold dipped rose.

centerpiece
faux leather covered contained filled with white roses

sign in
old run dmc album cover, search on ebay.

cake
one tier heart shaped black cake with a gold microphone topper.

special touches

boom box cookie table

wedding party dance to a hip hop song

Yeah

Here a few tunes for your reception.

Pink Get the Party Started
Rude Boy Rhianna
Hey Ya Outkast
Temperature Sean Paul
3 AM Matchbox 20
All The Small Things Blink 182
Run DMC Greatest Hits
Just Dance Lady GaGa
Planet Rock Afrika Bambaataa
Cowboy Casanova Carrie Underwodd
Wild at Heart Gloriana
I want a Cowboy Reba
Yeah Usher
Lo Flo Rida
You Shook Me All Night Long AD/DC

Cheers

For a fun wedding, consider the cocktail theme.

invitation
A black business card with blue ink.

bride
A blue dress with glass bouquet.

bridesmaids
A black dress with a blue mini carnation bouquet.

centerpiece
Take an over sized wine glass. Put it upside down. Place flowers under the glass.
At the top, hang little clear crystal beads.

cake
cocktail blue iced cupcakes with little sugar beads.

special touches
signature drink named after your favorite date place

candy cocktail bar

The After Party

Suggestive music is nothing new under the sun. I know I sneaked and listened to enough of it with my sister. Prince, anyone?

How can you play it with your grandmother sitting there?

You can't.

The solution: the after party. It is the great compromise to keep it classy for your grandmother but allow you to play something else later on.

inform
On your wedding invitations, you should inform your wedding guests.

the place
You can have it at your wedding reception or choose a smaller room for later. I had a friend who had a wedding and lunch at the church. Then the next day she had a party for her younger guests.

the transition
You definitely should make an announcement.

You can also have a wedding party dance or change clothes for your after party.

Summer Dress

Consider the summer dress for your beach wedding.

summerbeachdress.com

dessy.com

hawaiianweddingshop.com

ever-pretty.com

happy shoping!

Clue

Give your guests a clue with a mystery wedding theme.


invitation
Newsletter that sets the tone and the stage for your wedding.

the bride
A red dress with a red and black round bouquet with wedding charms.

the bride maids
the black dress with the red rose.

the room decor
One room wedding. The front of the ceremony, two four ft columns with a gold candelabra on each column. Round tables with a white table cloth. A centerpiece of gold candlesticks with black candles. Sprinkle the table with red rose petals.

On the table, give the guest a set of the cards with clues and suspects.

Make sure your person is the member of the wedding party.

the cake
A red velvet cake with black icing. The topper of red roses.

special touches

a blood Mary signature drink

a weapon cookie table

give the winner a gift basket

sources

hostaparty.com
partyproducts.com

Fairy Tale

When you take a wedding break, consider these great books.

Diary of a Mad Bride Laura Wolf

Any Way the Wind Blows E. Lynn Harris

Fairy Tale Natasha Usher

Second Chance Danielle Steel

A Night Song

I love historical romance novels, especially now in the hot summer months in Georgia. So for the bride who wants to add a little romance to her day, consider the historical romance wedding theme.

invitation
Write a letter to your wedding guests in calligraphy pen.

Gather a few friends for this project.

the bride
A ballroom gown with a bouquet of wild flowers.

the bridesmaids
An A line dress with a small train with a bouquet of baby breath and greenery.

ceremony
Add a little romance.

With your wedding vows, tell your love story. Start with when we first met....keep it rated G for everyone.

At the end of the ceremony, exchange roses.

sign in
Rent or buy costumes and make your own romance cover.

reception
old fashion jars filled with candies. Add rose petals to the tables.

cake table

Use a one layer heart shape cake in the center decorated with roses. Then on one side for the groom, have a pie decorated with roses. Then on the other side use a simple small white one layer cake for the maids with wedding charms.

sources

historicalcamdencounty.com
Beverlyjenkins.com
weddingcharms.com

blogs to love

Here are three blogs to help you with your wedding planning.

Brooklyn Bride
She has great and unique ideas at all price points. bklynbrideonline.com

Fish out of Water
I always have a great laugh with this blog as this young lady goes through the process of planning her wedding. Her honesty is really refreshing.
fishoutofwater-sam.blogspot.com

One Wed
For a wealth of wedding tips, go on onewed.com.

Parisian Events
For a sophisticated touch, follow the wedding planner in Paris.
parsianevents.com

1920s Moment

If you want a show a little leg, this is the era for you.

invitation
art deco postcards

the bride
A short dress with pearls. A big bouquet of greenery, baby breath, and tea roses.

the bridesmaids
A little black dress with a bead handled purse filled with tea roses.

the centerpiece
You and the groom should take square wooden container and create an art deco masterpiece using metal.
Fill the container with simple greenery and baby breath.

the music
jazz

the sign in
art deco poster

the cake
Two tiers. White bottom, black top tier. A metal cake topper.

special touches
gin inspired cupcake as dessert.

A dance marathon after party

baseball theme groom cake

I Got You

First Dance. From soul to country, there is something for everyone.

To Make You Feel My Love Garth Brooks

Hero Mariah Carey

I Will Always Love You Dolly Parton

I Got You James Brown

Three O'clock John McComrmack

LoveYou Maxwell

Literary Affair

A sophisticated cocktail with a literary twist is great theme.

invitation
a love poem such as Love Is by Nikki Giovanni. Print it in the center of the paper and then wedding details in the corner.

the bride
a little white dress with a bouquet of a few gardenia in the center surrounded by tea roses.

the bridesmaids
The little black dress with the gardenia in the hair.

the bridal processional
Have the groom to recite a poem as the bride walks down the aisle.

the sign in
Your favorite book.

the centerpiece
tea roses in a wine glass on a gold spray painted book.

the cake
A sheet cake with the bride's favorite poem on it.

Beach Read

For the bride on the moment, here are some great books for you.

Bridal Bargins Denise and Alan Fields

Hello Cupcake Karen Tack, Alan Richardson

Beautiful Wedding Receptions Donna Kooler

Creative Wedding Forals you can make Terry L. Rye

Groovy

Where can you find a dress for under $500? A costume store. You can be anyone from Cinderella to a Flinstone. Play around with the ideas for a unique wedding.

Rent
You can a dress from a local store or online.
costumesgalore.com

Used
Ebay.com and Deal.com are two spots in which you find the dream costume for a dream price.

New
buycostume.com, costumesupercenter.com are two sites for a costume.

Happy Shopping!

Art Day

Do you love art? Bring a little art to your day.

invitation
A photograph of the bride and groom on a postcard.

bride
An a little white dress with a pomander of black and purple beads.

bridesmaids
A purple dress with baby breath and greenery.

flower girl
A purple dress. Then have a carry a tote that you and the groom customized. Take fabric markers and draw a picture together.

sign in
An over sized poster of your favorite piece of art.

centerpiece
Have your guests paint a picture and send it in. Frame them. Then sprinkle white and purple flowers on each table.

cake
white cake with grapes as a topper.

special touches

frame postcard art work in small frames on the cake table.

cookie drawing table with food color markers.

Waiting to Exhale

Some weddings would make a great soap. The in laws want control. The bride wants to run away to the court house. The groom is drinking.

Inhale, Exhale

the journal
My wedding journal was like my best friend. It was better than yelling at my family and friends.

funny movie
Father of the Bride, Tyler Perry, or just an comedy tape. Have a laugh.

wedding break
sometimes you need to take break in order to put things in prospective. I say you work on a wedding 5 days a week and take two days off.

stay organized
Get a binder with pocket protective. Make sure you keep everything in one space.

yoga
When the stress is too much, I turn to my yoga for dummies book.

source
yoga.com

Go Animal!

If you want something a little more unique, consider a zoo theme wedding.

invitation
white invitation with a animal print ribbon

the bride
a white knee length dress with a bouquet of greenery and baby breath with a zebra print ribbon

the bridesmaids
a little black dress with animal print shoes. An animal print fan.

the centerpiece
stacked cheetah print or zebra print hat boxes. Sprinkle table with greenery.

the dessert
animal crackers with a fruit based or chocolate based dipping sauce.

the cake
two tier cake with animal print ribbion on the side. Clear cake topper in shape of a zoo animal.

grocery store wedding

Many brides at times like these are looking for ways to stretch their wedding dollars. Consider the grocery store. From the deli to everything in between, there is inspirational right in your neibghborhood.

the deili
Finger foods are great for a cocktail.

the bakery
You can find cupcakes, donuts, and some may be even do a simple wedding cake theat you can jazz up with cake decoratiing supplies.

food items
Colorful pasta in clear containers, fruits and vegetables in baskets, and even stacked spray painted can goods are all great for centerpieces.

flowers
I ordered my flowers from a local grocery stoere. Then I used a how to book to put together all our wedding flowers.

other
blank cards for invitations, magazine pages that can be framed for centerpieces, and even things like candles you can give out as wedding party gifts.

1990s Movie Moment

Sneakers under a huge dress to the sinking of a big ship. The 1990's had lots of inspiration for a bride.

the invitation
white card stock with black ink.

the bride
A little red dress with a match purse filled with red roses.

the bridesmaids
A black tuxedo pantsuit with a corsage of tea roses and baby breath.

front of ceremony
Two over sized gold spray painted pots. Inside each pot, plant one person. Have them to wear a black tux. Then paint their face gold.

Once the person is in the pot, plant greenery and mini carnations.

centerpiece
Gold colored popcorn in a clear container. Name your tables after the 1990s movie.

the cake
one tier cake with a gold Oscar as a topper.

special touches

Use music from the Father of the Bride and Titanic.

Have a cocktail hour inspired by Forrest Gump. Shrimp, anyone?

Give each guest a sparkler inspired by Independence Day.


source

gotparty.com

Love Train

Consider these recessional music selections for your love train.

Love Train O' Jays

The Wedding March Mendelesson

Trumpet Voluntary Clark

Everything I Do Bryan Adams

Crazy Pasty Cline

Step in the Name Love R. Kelly

The Vision

When I was a little, I knew I wanted a wedding. Too many Easter dresses with little white lace gloves. Big dress, sweet cake, and great food.

So I wrote it down in a wedding journal.

Thank God, I did. It was year of ideas in 2001-2002. Wedding cupcakes, donuts, and cookies. Big dresses of all colors and sizes. Old fashion A line gowns.

Then there is the family. The family with a million and one ideas. Well meaning, but sometimes it just does not fit what you want.

So write it all down. Close your eyes and remember what you truly want.

Under the Sea

The acquarium theme for the water babies out there.


invitation
Clear invitation with blue ink.

bride
A blue dress with silver shoes. A bouquet of blue dyed carnations with tiny silver painted beach shells.

bridesmaids
a white dress with a single blue dyed carnation

front of ceremony
silver painted garden arch with an garland of blue dyed carnations, white star fishes embellished with white crystals.

centerpiece
A bud vase with blue water and silver beads. Sprinkle a few silver sprayed painted star fish around the centerpiece.

sign in
Fish bowls. Have the guest sign the outside of it.

cake
A two tier cake in shape of a heart with a fountain below.

Say Yes to Something Else

From the beach to the park, there are many options for bridal wear.


the little white dress
I love the idea of a little white dress especially here in the south.
davidbridal.com

the white bathing suit
A great idea for the bride beside the pool or on the beach. A little white bathing suit with an embellished cover up.

AdvantageBridal.com

the linen shorts
The linen shorts with an off shoulder top with a pair of high heels. You can dance the night away.

Gap.com

sundress
For an outdoor wedding, a sundress can do the trick. Try whitehouseblackmarket.com or edressme.com for options.

Happy Shopping!

Wanted

If you want to be a little bit country, this is the theme for you.

invitation
A light brown card stock with black ink. Use a plaid ribbon at the top.

the bride
A white sundress with high heels. Carry a fabric horseshoe covered in silk roses.

the bridesmaids
A white cotton shirt with dark jeans and high heels. Have them to carry wildflowers in a bucket.

sign in
A picture of the bride and groom in western wear.

front of ceremony
Several cow boy hats hanging from a green garland from the ceiling.

centerpiece
A vase filled with trail mix. Place a few little cactus plants around the vase.

flower girl
cow girl with a wicker basket.

ring bearer
the little sheriff with rings attached to a cow boy hat.

cake
A wanted poster with a picture of the bride and groom on a sheet cake.

A Place

For most people place seating seems like a archaic concept. I like place seating. It makes everyone feel comfortable. At my own wedding with the personalities I have on both sides of the family, it was necessity.

Get help. Ask a couple of a family members or members of your bridal party to assist.

Do it early. Try to sit down with at least a month before your wedding.

Formality. For a formal wedding, try to assign seats. If you have an informal day, just assign tables.

Personality. Consider the traits of each guest. Mix up the old with the young. The single with the married couples. People who like to talk with a patient listener. The person who would tell the dirty joke with an open minded person. With my family I am not shocked by much.

The Inside Beach Moment

invitation
a newsletter that includes great fun facts about the city. Include fun places to visit and shop.

bride
A knee length dress with a halo of orchids.

bridesmaids
Linen shorts with an off shoulder shirt. Have them hold a pomander of shells.

centerpiece
Blue decorating ice in a wine glass. Sprinkle sand dollars on the table.

front of ceremony
buy or make a huge sand box. Paint the outside white. Then decorate with shells and flowers. During the ceremony, you and the groom stand in the box.

flower girl
a small beach tote bag filled with white rose petals.

ring bearer
A big shell with the rings

cake
A sheet cake in shape of a shell.

favor
A local snack.

source
islandweddingshop.com

orientaltrading.com

The Day After

I wish I could tell you that premarital counseling is the panacea for divorce. It's not. It does give you a reality check.


How do you get it?
Spiritual advisor, therapist, a happily married couple or a book.

What should it include?
Household duties, fiances, children, spiritual beliefs, future goals, and dating plan.

Keep It Fun
Write it all down in a contract. You can frame it and point to it when you have your first argument. Just kidding.

The Gilded Age

It was roaring before the 1920s. It was time of great wealth in this county. For a bride who wants an over top wedding theme. This is the one for you.

guest list
less than 40

invitation
A letter on gold paper with black ink.

Ask your wedding guests to bring a can good for the local food pantry.

bride
A white wedding dress with a high collar. Then carry a lace umbrella.

bridesmaids
A simple white dress with a lace fan.

front of ceremony
two four foot columns sprayed painted in gold. Use a garland of white roses and lemon leaves on each column.

centerpiece
Gold dipped rose in a clear vase.

Surround the centerpiece with a lemon leaf wreath.

Sign In
Gold paper with black pen

Menu
soup, fish, chicken, main dish, salad, cheese, and dessert

cake
A two tier white cake with gold sugared flowers.

Special touches

music by Scott Joplin for your wedding recession music

glass cups with the guest name on them

dessert table dusted in gold

Our Song

Have a moment during your ceremony with these songs.

I Believe in You and Me Whitney Houston

Time after Time Cyndi Lauper

Always on my Mind Willie Nelson

Chapel of Love Dixie Cups

A Whole New World Peabo Bryson and Reginna Belle

Red, White, and Blue

Happy Memorial Day! Have a great one.

invitation
white card stock with red ink and blue ribbon. flag confetti.

bride
white dress with blue dyed carnations with red beads.

front of ceremony
two tress with red carnations in the base of the tree.

bridesmaids
blue dress with a red, white, and blue ribbon bouquet.

centerpiece
blue sand in a clear container.

cake
one layer star shaped cake. Place the last name and wedding date in blue.

special touch
patriotic poem during the ceremony
pie table
cocktail Popsicles

In Living Color

Color is everywhere this wedding season. Pink has become the new white. I love it. I wanted a red wedding dress but of course my budget did not accommodate it. Now, there is a rainbow of options for every style and every budget.



The Traditional
For a touch of color or a full colored gown, go to eBridalSuperStore.com

A little Asian
eCrater. They have a few options.

efashioncentral.com
They have a great selection of prom dresses.

modcloth.com
It is a great place to find the little mini dress for the wedding on the beach.

Happy Shopping!

In a Pot

As a little girl in the south, there was always a flower pot around me during the spring and summer months. My great aunt hung baskets from her front porch with colorful flowers. My mother kept them in the yard with the great hope she would grow something. My neighbor kept them as a source of food, growing beautiful herbs and vegetables.

Me? Not so much. Good luck plant.

the invitation
Write your guests a note in a blank note card that has a flower design on the front.

the bride
a pink dress with a basket filled with baby breath and peonies.

the bridesmaids
a white dress with one peony.

the flower girl
a pink dress with a white garden basket of wax flowers and baby breath.

the ring bearer
a small pot with a silk peonies. The ring attached the flower.

the front of ceremony
over sized pots filled wax flowers and pink carnations.

the menu
tea time. use lots of pink colors in your white foods.

the centerpiece
Use a wooden white frame with a watercolor painting. Do it yourself. Then use mini pots around the frame that has wax flowers.

the room decor
Use hanging baskets from the ceiling.

the cake
use a two tier white cake with a fountain. Use fresh flowers as a topper.

sources
wilton.com
watercolorpainting.com

Cinderella's Ride

There are many options to get Cinderella to the ball.

choose early
I would say book your transportation at least four months before your day. Now, if you decide to get married during wedding season and prom season. I would say book your transportation at least eight to six months in advance.

where to find it
yellow pages, wedding sites, and a friend(they may have a nice car you can use).

on the cheap
For the bride on a moment, there are several choices. You have the black limo. Speaking of black, consider the funeral home to save a bit. A large car could do the trick especially if you wearing a small dress. Classic cars is another option to consider.

the contract
Read contract carefully. Consider the time needed, the places, and overtime charges.

Sources
limo.org
classiccarhireworld.com
carsinamerica.com
Antique Automobile Clubs of America

Pearls

Pearls make a wonderful and timeless statement for a wedding. This a wonderful wedding theme for a classic bride.

invitation
A letter with perfume on the back.

the bride
An A line wedding gown with a white bead bracelet. Purse filled with pink roses.

the bridesmaids
A little pink dress with a purse filled with white bead stems.

the front of the ceremony
Wedding Canopy. DIY. Use white beads on the side of the wedding canopy.

the centerpiece
a bud vase on a mirror. One pink rose with white bead stems.

the wedding cake
two tier cake with pink dots on the side. Pink roses as a topper.

sign in
A silver bucket with white cards. Pearls of wisdom. Great advice for the new couple.

sources
do-it-yourself-wedding.com
jewlerysupply.com
vintagepearl.com